How to Approach Women – And Get Them to Surrender to You in Love

Most guys out there have one simple question when it comes to picking up women, and that is: how do you start great conversations that are sure to get women interested? A lot of guys just run into a brick wall when they try to talk to girls – they just turn their backs and the guy is left totally out in the cold.

The problem is, once a girl has lost interest in you, it’s all over – she isn’t coming back. With that said, it’s obvious that you can’t afford to be unable to hold great conversations, or you’ll never get anywhere.

You’re in luck, though, because we’re bringing you some proven techniques for seduction. These two tips are powerful tools for your seduction toolbox, and will get women to see you as irresistible.

How To Approach Women – And Get Them To Surrender To You In Love

Tip #1 – “Never Lose Control.” The number one hugest mistake that most men make when on the dating scene is to let themselves be controlled by women. We all know the guy who can never say no to a woman, or the whipped dude who runs away screaming when his girlfriend gets upset with him.

Girls treat guys this way only because the guys let them, and don’t take control of the situation. If you want to be a successful, be different – be strong and take the reins of the relationship. Women love a guy who can take charge.

Tip #2 – “Boys Don’t Cry.” There are guys out there who just have complete emotional breakdowns when their women kick them to the curb. Don’t be one of those guys – you don’t want her to like you out of pity! That’s the worst kind of relationship, and no one feels comfortable when they feel like they can’t end it out of fear of hurting feelings.

That’s not to say you shouldn’t have a sensitive, vulnerable side. The key is to show those qualities without being a crybaby. That is the big difference between a successful relationship and watching some tough guy steal your girl.

Bonus Tip Number Three – “Hypnosis is the best flirting weapon…bar none.” One such hypnosis technique is called ‘fractionation’. Fractionation is considered as a ‘dark art’ tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.