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Love and Relationships – How to Get a Commitment and a Great Relationship

Do you want commitment, love, and a great relationship? Are you ready to move beyond playing the field? Do you know how to get your guy to commit to you? Most women do not understand that there are just a few simple things to remember if you want to make that guy realize how absolutely amazing you are. Here are a few ideas to move you along when trying to intertwine love and relationships.

So, you’ve met a great guy and you would love to spend every minute with him! DON’T! Even in the excitement of a new relationship, being always available drastically decreases your enticement quotient. Keep up with your pre-guy activities. Here are a few things to remember:

1.) Being always available translates to making it too easy for him.

2.) Being always available translates to boring.

3.) Being always available translates to no challenge, no prize.

4.) Being always available translates to same old, same old…

Being always available quite often means love and your relationship might stall because of the reasons stated above.

Now, a few things to keep in mind when you are with him. Be exciting and find different, exciting things to talk about. For example, did he know the local college team is going to the playoffs, or that great cover band will be playing at a downtown bar on Friday night? Tell him about the killer rib-eye steaks you grilled for dinner or that hilarious reality show you watched the night before. Definitely tell stories about other friends, including guys. It can’t hurt to let him wonder if he has a little competition, right? But, do stay away from talking politics until you are sure of that love and relationship. If you don’t see that happening, move on. You have the tools to find one of those other great guys out there.